Getting Harmony and Teamness Right

Your group didn’t get a report in on time and you need to figure out why. You want to challenge the assumption that the most important thing is getting along or teamness.Raising the issue with Megan and Jean won’t be an easy conversation but it’s necessary. YOU: So, guys, I wanted to talk about the report not going out last week. Expect avoidance Jean: But it went the Tuesday after so no harm done. YOU:  I’d like to discuss why it didn’t go on Friday. Expect sniping Megan: (undertone) Because the data weren’t there. Jean: I heard that! YOU: Let’s stick to the issue. Jean, you didn’t get the data to Megan on Wednesday. Why? Jean: I wanted to make it right. YOU: Megan needed it. Expect defensiveness Jean: Crummy research can’t go out! YOU: But what could you have done? Jean: Huh? Suggest solutions the first time YOU: Why not tell Megan you were going to be late? Jean: She knew when it didn’t arrive. Megan:  I needed a heads up. Jean: Wouldn’t have made a difference. YOU: But you two might have worked something to meet the deadline with good data. Jean: She could have called any time….

Harmony Gone Wrong

Harmony Gone Wrong What happened? In the last post, you returned after a week off to find that an important report didn’t go out. You thought you could have counted on Megan. You need to talk to her. Talk to Megan After discussions about the state of your father’s health, you get down to brass tacks. You Skype her. YOU: I was disappointed the report wasn’t finished on time. Megan: I sent you what I could. I didn’t have all the data. YOU: Did you bug Jean? She’s not great about deadlines. Megan: Every day. Wednesday, she said she’d do it but it didn’t come in time. YOU: Why didn’t you call me? Megan: I didn’t want to bother you. After all, your father and all. YOU: You could have left a message. Megan: I guess so. YOU: Come on, Megan, what’s really going on? Megan: (sigh) Jean’s a nice person, I didn’t want to get her into trouble. YOU: But that meant we didn’t meet our deadline. Megan: Well, I knew it would be better for you to talk to her as you’re the boss. Why didn’t Megan call you? Here is an example of where keeping harmony in…

Getting Along Can Do You In- Team Spirit Gone Wrong

Getting Along Can Do You In Team Spirit Gone Wrong The need for harmony Having a harmonious working life is a good thing, as is a harmonious personal life. It is stressful, unpleasant, and even injurious to your health to work in tension or conflict. A team which gets along is usually more productive. However, the need for harmony can sometimes be so overwhelming that everything else goes out the window—such as being innovative, avoiding failure, or telling the truth. Let’s use the example below to explore this. Missing data The executive group reviews the strategic plan annually. You supervise putting together the report. You research trends, gather data, and model different scenarios for the plan. Your meeting with Jean, your employee You: Jean, have you seen how Megan’s company did their report? I like it. I think we should use it this year. Jean: Hey, we took over Megan’s company. She should do it our way. You: We should use what’s best from both. Jean: (Silence) You: Anyhow, because Megan is with us, we can spread out the work. Jean: She’s three hours behind us. It’ll be impossible to work together. You: There’s a way it might. You like…